Well over a hundred family and friends gathered together to celebrate the life of long-time resident and first responder Al Ameer, who passed away on March 3, 2025, in the 77th year of his life, in a ceremony which heart-wrenchingly started with the recording of a dispatcher stating: “After sixty years of service, Al Ameer has answered his last call.”
A Vietnam veteran who enlisted in the Army in 1967, and was awarded the National Defense Service Medal, the Valatory Service medal, the Vietnam Campaign Medal, and the Army Commendation Medal, Al returned to civilian life in Hampton and spent the rest of it in service to the residents of Hampton through his tenure with the Fire Department and the Ambulance Corps, selflessly answering the call for his neighbors for sixty years. In 1995 he was recognized as the Gazette’s Citizen of the Year, and in 2024, he received a proclamation from the Town of Hampton and a citation from the State Assembly for his volunteer service to the town.
Many in attendance shared stories of Al, members of the Fire Department who remembered him as a mentor, his daughter-in-law who echoed everyone’s sentiments when she said he was “always there for us”, and his son. Here are his words:
My dad was my hero growing up. He was just the best and he had a hero team that came with him. I often look back and wonder how he did it.
I have countless memories of being with dad from doing firewood at the old house, tending to chickens, and playing in the most awesome tree house that he built. I still to this day can’t figure out how he built that tree house so quickly. That tree house lasted until they had to cut down the tree, so it was at least 30 years old.
One day dad came home with something sticking out of the back of his truck. Looking out the window I didn’t know what it was but I knew it was awesome. He had gotten me a go-kart. I probably was not really old enough for it. The first ride didn’t go so well. I went full tilt across the yard, spun out and scared myself and mom. I had to wait forever to drive it again. That go-kart was for sure a “gateway drug” for me and my addiction to vehicles and fixing stuff.
As I grew and started building my own life and making terrible decisions on my own, mom and dad stuck by me and did their best to encourage and advise me to make better choices. When I found out that I liked jeeps and racing, they did not try to stop me, though mom couldn’t stand to watch me compete most times. Dad came with me to so many races. Looking back I wish I knew at the time how much that would mean to me. Dad and Kari both came to all the big events, they even flew to South Carolina to cheer us on. Mom did her part from home base, making us famously good food to share with the whole crew. At Vermonster there were helicopter rides and every time I won I’d take the money to buy us tickets for it. Dad loved those rides. He would always hit it off with the pilot and the rides would go a little longer than they were supposed to.
My dad influenced who I am in a lot of ways…His love of animals helped Kari and I build our lives. Kari found herself working with animals and for me, it helped me find my amazing, perfect wife.
When dad started working for Amerigas it allowed him to go to more fire calls. For a long time we all joked that he would be the only one that would bring a rolling bomb to a working fire. Speaking of which, dad had been blown up not once, but twice. I learned how strong he really was during those times. Being burned like he was, staying in the burn unit, and the pain he must have endured; he had been through hell and made it back. He was the strongest man I knew and was always there for his family, friends, and the community.
I can’t count the amount of times dad was top responder. The firehouse and everyone who has been a part of it has truly been dad’s family. I hope that all its members here today know that. This was his rock. This was something he loved and cared for as much as his blood family, and he dedicated 60 years of his life to it.
Growing up, mom and dad treated our friends like family. If any one of them needed a safe place, food, a ride, or an advocate, mom and dad had them covered. We always felt safe at home an d I will never be able to thank them enough for that. I have a small family but a strong and loved one. Having memories of being together, camping as a family, surrounded by friends. Charlestown Beachway was such a special place for our family. We intend to spread dad’s and mom’s ashes there together.
Later in life I met Penny and realized that I wanted to spend forever with her and dad was so supportive. Even though he was going through one of the hardest parts of his life, this was when mom was sick. I had never seen my dad cry or show weakness until mom passed. So much had happened in his life but he had handled it all with grace. Losing mom was harder than any physical pain. I remember being with him one day just trying to find some way to help, not too long after she was gone, and the tones went off for a fire in Chaplin requesting mutual aid. Dad hadn’t left the house in a few weeks at this point and was just so sad. I said, “Come on They need help. Let’s go.” And that got him going. We headed up, hopped in one of the ET’s and headed to Chaplin. Dad refocused and his fire family took over. I’m pretty sure he was top responder for many years after that. Thank you, Hampton Fire Department. My dad needed you and to this day you took care of him, too.
As time moved along, dad found Holly. Friendship grew into love and marriage. Holly was a big change of pace for us. That was just what dad needed. They got to travel and go on adventures together. They took care of each other, and are awesome grandparents. We became a new family. Thank you to Holly for filling dad’s life with love, and caring for him. He loved us all. He was the best dad and an amazing friend to all of you.
Joey Ameer